I often see articles detailing how we can pinch pennies, tighten the belt and live on less. The intention is to ultimately help us keep more of our own money. The intention is not to make us feel financially secure, let alone wealthy. Advice of that sort comes from a mindset of scarcity.
Living comfortably is a great first step toward changing our perspective. For long term wealth building, it is essential to move away from fear of scarcity and progress toward the concept of abundance.
This is an inside job because it starts at home, with you. Think about fine dining, for example. Dinner for two at an elite venue could run $150.00. A similar dinner cooked at home would cost a quarter of that amount. Furthermore, when we create an exquisite meal in our own kitchen, we honor ourselves as worth the effort.
Gifting ourselves time, energy and attention can elevate our expectations. In this vein, we give ourselves a comfortable living experience. As in the dinner description above, we are allocating less funds outward and giving more focus inward. So, get cozy and comfy and treat yourself.
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